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Life Skills for Teens: The Ultimate Readiness Checklist

60 concrete skills across the 12 areas that decide whether a teenager can actually run their own life at 18. Work through them together — no lecture required.

Personal Finance

Budgeting, saving, banking, credit and taxes.

  • Open and manage a checking and savings account
  • Build a simple monthly budget and stick to it
  • Read a pay stub and understand tax withholding
  • Understand credit scores, interest and minimum payments
  • Transfer money, pay a bill and avoid overdraft fees

Typically starts around age 14.

Jobs & Career

Resumes, interviews, workplace basics.

  • Write a one-page resume with real experience
  • Fill out a job application accurately
  • Answer common interview questions out loud
  • Ask about pay, schedule and expectations
  • Give notice and leave a job professionally

Typically starts around age 14.

Driving & Transport

Licensing, car care, getting around.

  • Study for and pass the permit test
  • Log supervised driving hours in varied conditions
  • Pump gas, check tire pressure and oil
  • Know what to do after a minor collision
  • Read an insurance card and registration

Typically starts around age 15.

College & Education

Applications, aid, and choosing a path.

  • Research programs, trades or colleges that fit the goal
  • Understand FAFSA, scholarships and total cost
  • Request transcripts and recommendation letters
  • Track application deadlines independently
  • Email a teacher, advisor or admissions office

Typically starts around age 15.

Cooking & Home

Meals, laundry, cleaning, repairs.

  • Cook five reliable meals from scratch
  • Shop from a list and compare unit prices
  • Do laundry start to finish, including stains
  • Clean a kitchen and bathroom to a standard
  • Handle basic repairs: plunger, breaker, smoke alarm

Typically starts around age 14.

Healthcare

Appointments, insurance, medication.

  • Book their own doctor and dentist appointments
  • Describe symptoms and ask follow-up questions
  • Understand insurance cards, copays and pharmacies
  • Take medication safely and refill prescriptions
  • Know their allergies and medical history

Typically starts around age 14.

Communication

Speaking up, email, conflict, advocacy.

  • Write a clear, polite email to an adult
  • Make a phone call to a business or office
  • Advocate for themselves when something is wrong
  • Handle disagreement without shutting down
  • Say no and set a boundary

Typically starts around age 14.

Digital Safety

Privacy, scams, reputation, security.

  • Use unique passwords and two-factor authentication
  • Spot phishing, scams and fake job offers
  • Adjust privacy settings on their accounts
  • Understand what a digital footprint costs them later
  • Back up important files and photos

Typically starts around age 14.

Important Documents

ID, SSN, records, forms and signatures.

  • Know where their Social Security card and birth certificate are
  • Get and renew a state ID or passport
  • Read a lease, contract or terms before signing
  • Keep copies of pay stubs, tax forms and records
  • Fill out a W-4 and file a simple tax return

Typically starts around age 15.

Emergencies

First aid, crisis calls, staying calm.

  • Perform basic first aid and know when to call 911
  • Shut off water, gas or electricity in the home
  • Keep an emergency contact list and meeting plan
  • Handle a car breakdown or lockout
  • Recognise a mental-health crisis and where to get help

Typically starts around age 14.

Time Management

Planning, deadlines, follow-through.

  • Use one calendar for school, work and commitments
  • Break a big task into deadlines that hold
  • Wake up and get somewhere on time without reminders
  • Say no to overcommitment
  • Follow through on something boring for a month

Typically starts around age 14.

Independent Living

Renting, insurance, decisions, adulting.

  • Navigate a new place using transit or maps
  • Handle a week alone: food, sleep, cleaning, budget
  • Ask for help from the right person
  • Make a decision and own the outcome
  • Live within their means for a full month

Typically starts around age 16.

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